tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5404818108376208169.post61127507973309867..comments2023-10-18T05:40:20.001-04:00Comments on Accidentally Mommy: VERY personal post.AccidentallyMommyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03519026987694586989noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5404818108376208169.post-23452273112125814682010-06-01T19:15:56.726-04:002010-06-01T19:15:56.726-04:00Thank you all for your kind and supportive words.
...Thank you all for your kind and supportive words.<br /><br />KB: Thank you for reminding me that lonliness can creep into all situations. I think my feelings regarding relationships often cloud my common sense in those regards. As always, you offer me perspective, and I appreciate you for it. <3<br /><br />Veronica: In no way did you say the wrong thing. Our hurt feelings certainly parallel eachother in that we're trying to reconcile our joy for those we love with our own deep and private sorrow for that which we've missed out on. I need to remember that it's not all necessarily a lost cause, though. You've gotten your miracle twice; I need to just have a little hope for mine. :)AccidentallyMommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03519026987694586989noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5404818108376208169.post-2693576879187903062010-06-01T17:38:34.583-04:002010-06-01T17:38:34.583-04:00I don't know what to day.
This is so sad but b...I don't know what to day.<br />This is so sad but beautifully written.<br />Thank you for your honesty and sharing.Katiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05528484098724947814noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5404818108376208169.post-50423494040428278102010-06-01T11:46:53.880-04:002010-06-01T11:46:53.880-04:00I know exactly how you feel. Perhaps not exactly b...I know exactly how you feel. Perhaps not <i>exactly</i> but very, very close. <br /><br />I know so many pregnant friends right now (most specifically of which my sister), and I watch every day in envy and awe as her husband caves to her cravings and goes out at 2 a.m. to buy her something, does all the laundry for her, tells her how beautiful she is. <br /><br />And then I am reminded of how mine told me he hoped I miscarried, constantly told me not to eat so I wouldn't gain weight, (my parents gave me a birthday cake and he gave it away), got mad at me anytime I had to go to the hospital for a check-up or if I had a pregnancy issue. <br /><br />I'm jealous, and I'll never know how it feels to have real support. And I think I will forever have issues and insecurities that cause me to have problems trusting men in the future. <br /><br />I know how you feel. I have no advice or words of wisdom, because I'm still trying to figure it out myself. But... I know how you feel. <br /><br />*hugs*Deliriumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08839815773653519532noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5404818108376208169.post-39502447854138944922010-05-31T23:40:15.888-04:002010-05-31T23:40:15.888-04:00It's hard, you can be happy for them and still...It's hard, you can be happy for them and still be sad/bitter/angry for you. I felt like that as we were trying (and failing) to conceive and everyone around me was announcing 'whoops!' pregnancies. <br /><br />Now I'm worrying I've said entirely the wrong thing. <br /><br />xxVeronica Foalehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05519401661788911341noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5404818108376208169.post-29644704044785365982010-05-31T23:10:06.742-04:002010-05-31T23:10:06.742-04:00I don't know what to say. Massive *hugs*I don't know what to say. Massive *hugs*Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00101702027659236886noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5404818108376208169.post-17554229498075724882010-05-31T23:00:07.072-04:002010-05-31T23:00:07.072-04:00Oh, sweetie, this really tugs at my heart. You ar...Oh, sweetie, this really tugs at my heart. You are very brave to write something so raw and beautifully honest. I would caution you against assuming, though, that your partnered friends never long for affection or intimacy. Loneliness can live in the most unlikely places. Though of course it's easier with two to share the burdens and the joys of parenting. I wish for you all the love, nurturing and intimacy that has yet been absent on your journey. xoWanderlusthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12099758957492165428noreply@blogger.com