First time primitive camping with an 18 month old and a six year old. Tips? Troubles? Mama has done the alone-in-the-woods-with-a-mechanical-pencil-and-some-rubbing-alcohol type stuff, but I've never done it with the kids. I find myself somewhat trepidatious, even though I have decent wilderness skills. I've never had to use them with the kids, though, and well... Accidentally Mommy would prefer not to rock the boat and end up Accidentally Needing Them.
Please... discuss in comments! I'm sure everyone has an anecdote if nothing else, of their own.
Friday, June 10, 2011
Thursday, June 9, 2011
To eat, or not to eat (with kids?) That is the question.
There's been a lot of banter for a long time now about when parents should take their children to restaurants, and what to do if their children become fussy, or worse- downright disruptive and rude. There have even been movements where certain restaurants who are not necessarily inappropriate for a family to dine in are banning children, not unlike the "if you're under four feet, you may not ride" signs you see at Splash Mountain.
I have two children. Snow white is often added in as the third, if not Blueberry Nights. I'd say I'm alone with them about 70% of the time, and we do go out to eat on a semi-regular basis. Now, with that said, I'd like you to watch the ABC clip from the show "What would you do?" about out of control kids in "family friendly" restaurants. Here's the linky.
I'm appalled on multiple counts. Number one, that a parent has become so overwhelmed that they cannot effectively deal with their children when they reach that point of meltdown. (Yes, I know those were actors, but none of us can deny that it happens every day.) Number two, I'm shocked that so many people voted to oust the family, instead of taking initiative. In this circumstance, I refer to the wait staff and managers.
Having worked in food service, one of the things that was always stressed to us as serve staff is diffuse, diffuse, diffuse. Now, obviously in certain circumstances there isn't much to be done. That said, there is always *something* to try, even if it's calling back to the kitchen for some nibblies on the house. And don't tell me there isn't always a way to do it... forgo your OWN nibblies. This isn't even for the childrens' sake. Take one long look at the parent, and if you see a human being at their breaking point, reach out with a lifeline.
The other thing that really, really upset me was the reaction of other parents, or people who otherwise worked with children.* (*not including the teacher at the end. She was awesome.)
Admittedly, there are often instances where it is inappropriate to scold or intervene in another child's circumstance. Here, though? Here is where you will see and have seen me do any of the following:
I have two children. Snow white is often added in as the third, if not Blueberry Nights. I'd say I'm alone with them about 70% of the time, and we do go out to eat on a semi-regular basis. Now, with that said, I'd like you to watch the ABC clip from the show "What would you do?" about out of control kids in "family friendly" restaurants. Here's the linky.
I'm appalled on multiple counts. Number one, that a parent has become so overwhelmed that they cannot effectively deal with their children when they reach that point of meltdown. (Yes, I know those were actors, but none of us can deny that it happens every day.) Number two, I'm shocked that so many people voted to oust the family, instead of taking initiative. In this circumstance, I refer to the wait staff and managers.
Having worked in food service, one of the things that was always stressed to us as serve staff is diffuse, diffuse, diffuse. Now, obviously in certain circumstances there isn't much to be done. That said, there is always *something* to try, even if it's calling back to the kitchen for some nibblies on the house. And don't tell me there isn't always a way to do it... forgo your OWN nibblies. This isn't even for the childrens' sake. Take one long look at the parent, and if you see a human being at their breaking point, reach out with a lifeline.
The other thing that really, really upset me was the reaction of other parents, or people who otherwise worked with children.* (*not including the teacher at the end. She was awesome.)
Admittedly, there are often instances where it is inappropriate to scold or intervene in another child's circumstance. Here, though? Here is where you will see and have seen me do any of the following:
- Offer distraction. Like I said, 2-4 kids at all times, I have a large supply of somewhat melty crayons, wrinkled paper, small toys, board books, and even some individually wrapped nibblies (GOD I love the word "nibblies,") at the bottom of my purse/bag. Talk to mom or dad first, of course, but if they give the go ahead? Dude. Matchbox cars and crayons can be replaced for less than a dollar. Share your distraction wealth, even if it means a quiet, impromptu story time with your "Who's nose is this?" book.
- Quiet games! As always, check with mom or dad first, but if Thundercats Are Go, engage not only your own children, but theirs as well. I spy, Simon Says, hell... even Rock/Paper/Scissors are all great, especially since you're someone they don't know that wishes to pay attention to them. Under the age of ten, that is a HUGE moment, since they are still at the stage of psychological development that attention = praise, and many kids will happily join in to attain that praise.
- For children that are older and engaged in downright destructive behavior, I've found that a quiet scolding that is non-ego-damaging can work, and work quickly. Most often, I go with "You know what? You are awesome, and I know your mama/daddy raised you to show how awesome you are, instead of acting/doing this. Could you show me why they think you're as special as you are?" It's praise more than scold, and it reminds them that their parents ARE proud of them, and that their behavior is perhaps not living up to the best qualities they possess. Now, that said, I live in the deep south. I've had neighbors/friends that told me it was okay to strap their kids' asses if necessary. Regardless of that, though - encourage good behavior with redirecting praise, and you generally won't get an objection from the overwhelmed and exhausted parent because you're NOT berating or punishing, you're acknowledging that their child has GOOD qualities, and you're able to see that through their rowdy behavior.
We're all in the same club, ya'll. We have created and brought forth these tiny people with their own tiny personalities, egos, strengths and weaknesses. We are all playing by ear, because none of us have a manual on how to shape our little beings into successful adults. Therefore, shouldn't we all work together to ad lib the manual when we find a club member who is struggling?
Regardless of what anyone else will say or do, I'd like you to know that I will always, always try to lend you a hand when you need it.
Wednesday, June 8, 2011
Bug update
Today was the long awaited appointment with the genetics team. We were referred there for suspicious hyperpigmentation concurrent with a neurological disorder called Neurofibromatosis type I. (NF1 for short.) Additionally, the possibility of one of the many mutations of Cystic Fibrosis has been on the table for a long time, now.
There are many things that were said during the appointment that I'm sure I'll miss in this note, but here goes.
In regards to the NF1, he has a big head and a small stature. That, combined with the cafe au lait stains, the gross and fine motor delays, and the speech delay has led the team to conclude that he is definitely diagnosed, with a 75% surety. The blood test for the other 25% is $2k out of pocket. We're going to take the 75%. Now, what does this mean for him in the future? No one knows. He could develop nodules in his brain, on his spine, on his nerves, in his muscles, on his skin, or in his eyes. By the same token, he could never exhibit another new symptom. He may not speak, he may. He may fall into the autistic spectrum, he may not. There's a lot of may/may not's with this one. He goes for a recheck in a year, unless new developments arise.
That out of the way, there is definite concern for his slight stature. Height and weight fall just under the third percentile for him. With all of the GI issues and his continued failure to thrive, having the sequencing done for Cystic Fibrosis was a definite.
In regards to just his slight stature, there may have been some malabsorption and malnutrition during the puking/diarrhea times. In addition to the may/may not's above, his grown may/may not have been stunted, and may/may not even out later.
Overwhelmed? Yes. But that is where we are. Love you all, xoxo
Tuesday, June 7, 2011
The one where she talks of everything, and nothing at all.
Empty promises to return to the blogging front lines have begun to gather dust.
Have you ever been so far into the middle of the storm that you begin to wonder if you've lost your footing, perhaps stumbled into some alternate reality?
I'm there. I've been there for a while now. While the landscape is vaguely familiar, I have yet to acquaint myself with it. It's populated by the people who have always occupied the cast list in my life; to the positive of that, some have been unwittingly blessed, and saved from being typecast as villains, instead taking on the roles of sound reason and closest to heart. Of them I which I could talk more, but unfortunately there are plot devices still at large that could easily ruin the ending.
The children. My beautiful Kinder Major and Bug. Snow white, and her excitement to see me when she comes in the door. Blueberry Night, a character in a new role, so... lost. The children are also left to the devices of the writers. They are the ultimate balm for my troubled heart, but the source of the trouble is the trials they're forced to endure.
I know, I know... you're reading this and thinking "Jesus god, could she lay the rhetoric on any thicker? Mayhap we could call Tammy Fay on over to give her a few tips on the womanly art of slathering."
I won't lie - I'm feeling a little 'mo. I can't talk about the most important developments in my life right now, because they're intrinsically linked to the most devastating ones. While not as "bad" as the hardships that friends and family are enduring, they have a profound effect on four small, beautiful souls. I'm helpless, and stuck in a stalemate with the universe. Were I in my ancestral home, you'd find me leaving fry bread and beer at the closest rock cairn. However, I doubt that the Tuatha De have deigned to follow my family this far and this long. No, if there is cosmic mischief about, it's coming from far newer tricksters.
There I go again, with the rhetoric.
Tonight, this morning, right this second with my fingers on the keyboard, my stomach is churning, my head is pounding, my teeth are aching, and my eyes are burning. When I tried to sleep, I found myself doing so in tiny snippets that left me more tired than I was when I started out.
In t-5:00 hours, I take Bug to see the pediatric geneticist. At 19 months, he is 21 lbs and 29". It was a fight to get him where he is - olive oil in everything savory, coconut oil in everything sweet. Balancing out proteins and fats to protect his kidneys and gallbladder. Strictly monitoring the ingredients of everything that goes into his mouth, cutting out all dairy in any incarnation. Powdered prescription formula derived from amino acids, re-constituted with vanilla rice milk to mask the taste.
He has only just begun walking in the past two weeks, and his verbal accomplishments are definitely behind the standard milestones.
Frightening possibilities have been thrown down on the table. Possibilities that, should they become realities, will leave me wondering when I will have to bury my son, or possibly worse, how often I will have to sit with him in hospital as he receives painful treatments to create some semblance of a normal existence.
I sit here, typing this while I watch him sleep in his pack and play, with tears running down my cheeks whenever I think too hard about the implications of the fact that we've made it to this clinic to begin with.
As a woman, not a mother, not a fiance, not a step mother to Blueberry Nights, I've doubted my faith.
When Bug was conceived, I was unsure. His pregnancy was fraught with difficulties, from a placental abruption in the first trimester he never should have lived through, to his rocky induction at 36w5d. When his other biological contributor showed his dangerous and sadistic true self, I was angry. I hated myself and I hated Bug for existing. I hated him because he was a very prominent reminder of the danger I placed Kinder Major in, of my poor ability to judge one's character. I hated him, because there I was again - single, alone, with no one that wanted any of us.
It's a hard thing, to go through a pregnancy, an entire pregnancy, with the only touch you receive being your OB exams and the occasional hug from family. To be isolated, and watch the world and friends and family go by, chattering excitedly about what coloring the baby will favor, mama or papa, to watch partners look at their wives and fall in love all over again. To know that there is no one who feels that way.
No one.
It creates bitterness. It creates hatred. It creates a miserable existence.
But in the end, I did love him. I loved him the instant they placed him on my chest, smelling of the intoxicating scent that is new birth. He looked into my eyes in that moment, as I rubbed him to stimulate him, doing his APGARS in my head and realizing he was failing them miserably. In that moment, I knew that he was just as stubborn as me, and that I had misjudged him.
So now, here I sit, trembling at the prospect of walking in there alone, without the man who loves us retroactively, who refuses to acknowledge that he is not Bug's daddy. He is off working for the security of our future. He loves us. It's odd to see it typed out that way. He loves all of us. Kinder Major, Blueberry Nights, and Bug, as well as me. We love him back, fiercely, naturally. Us as a family is remarkably organic in our mismatched minor dysfunction. He is my best friend and my, dare I be so cliche, soul mate. It took six years to realize it, but we did, and together as a family it seems like it will all be okay, that we'll make it some way. The only comfort about him being there and us being here, is that it reinforces our beliefs (and slight trepidation,) that our love as a family is palpable, even 140 miles away.
Can that love make up for those 36 weeks of anger and pain, though? Or am I to be punished through his punishment? That, truly, is Hell on Earth. To watch helplessly as the merry-go-round spins out of control, and traps the littlest feet in the nightmare. To watch him struggle, to worry and wonder, and in the end be sentenced harshly.
Suddenly, I'm out of things to say. Time to shower, to put on a pretty face, and my best, most confident foot forward, for all of us need it today.
Have you ever been so far into the middle of the storm that you begin to wonder if you've lost your footing, perhaps stumbled into some alternate reality?
I'm there. I've been there for a while now. While the landscape is vaguely familiar, I have yet to acquaint myself with it. It's populated by the people who have always occupied the cast list in my life; to the positive of that, some have been unwittingly blessed, and saved from being typecast as villains, instead taking on the roles of sound reason and closest to heart. Of them I which I could talk more, but unfortunately there are plot devices still at large that could easily ruin the ending.
The children. My beautiful Kinder Major and Bug. Snow white, and her excitement to see me when she comes in the door. Blueberry Night, a character in a new role, so... lost. The children are also left to the devices of the writers. They are the ultimate balm for my troubled heart, but the source of the trouble is the trials they're forced to endure.
I know, I know... you're reading this and thinking "Jesus god, could she lay the rhetoric on any thicker? Mayhap we could call Tammy Fay on over to give her a few tips on the womanly art of slathering."
I won't lie - I'm feeling a little 'mo. I can't talk about the most important developments in my life right now, because they're intrinsically linked to the most devastating ones. While not as "bad" as the hardships that friends and family are enduring, they have a profound effect on four small, beautiful souls. I'm helpless, and stuck in a stalemate with the universe. Were I in my ancestral home, you'd find me leaving fry bread and beer at the closest rock cairn. However, I doubt that the Tuatha De have deigned to follow my family this far and this long. No, if there is cosmic mischief about, it's coming from far newer tricksters.
There I go again, with the rhetoric.
Tonight, this morning, right this second with my fingers on the keyboard, my stomach is churning, my head is pounding, my teeth are aching, and my eyes are burning. When I tried to sleep, I found myself doing so in tiny snippets that left me more tired than I was when I started out.
In t-5:00 hours, I take Bug to see the pediatric geneticist. At 19 months, he is 21 lbs and 29". It was a fight to get him where he is - olive oil in everything savory, coconut oil in everything sweet. Balancing out proteins and fats to protect his kidneys and gallbladder. Strictly monitoring the ingredients of everything that goes into his mouth, cutting out all dairy in any incarnation. Powdered prescription formula derived from amino acids, re-constituted with vanilla rice milk to mask the taste.
He has only just begun walking in the past two weeks, and his verbal accomplishments are definitely behind the standard milestones.
Frightening possibilities have been thrown down on the table. Possibilities that, should they become realities, will leave me wondering when I will have to bury my son, or possibly worse, how often I will have to sit with him in hospital as he receives painful treatments to create some semblance of a normal existence.
I sit here, typing this while I watch him sleep in his pack and play, with tears running down my cheeks whenever I think too hard about the implications of the fact that we've made it to this clinic to begin with.
As a woman, not a mother, not a fiance, not a step mother to Blueberry Nights, I've doubted my faith.
When Bug was conceived, I was unsure. His pregnancy was fraught with difficulties, from a placental abruption in the first trimester he never should have lived through, to his rocky induction at 36w5d. When his other biological contributor showed his dangerous and sadistic true self, I was angry. I hated myself and I hated Bug for existing. I hated him because he was a very prominent reminder of the danger I placed Kinder Major in, of my poor ability to judge one's character. I hated him, because there I was again - single, alone, with no one that wanted any of us.
It's a hard thing, to go through a pregnancy, an entire pregnancy, with the only touch you receive being your OB exams and the occasional hug from family. To be isolated, and watch the world and friends and family go by, chattering excitedly about what coloring the baby will favor, mama or papa, to watch partners look at their wives and fall in love all over again. To know that there is no one who feels that way.
No one.
It creates bitterness. It creates hatred. It creates a miserable existence.
But in the end, I did love him. I loved him the instant they placed him on my chest, smelling of the intoxicating scent that is new birth. He looked into my eyes in that moment, as I rubbed him to stimulate him, doing his APGARS in my head and realizing he was failing them miserably. In that moment, I knew that he was just as stubborn as me, and that I had misjudged him.
So now, here I sit, trembling at the prospect of walking in there alone, without the man who loves us retroactively, who refuses to acknowledge that he is not Bug's daddy. He is off working for the security of our future. He loves us. It's odd to see it typed out that way. He loves all of us. Kinder Major, Blueberry Nights, and Bug, as well as me. We love him back, fiercely, naturally. Us as a family is remarkably organic in our mismatched minor dysfunction. He is my best friend and my, dare I be so cliche, soul mate. It took six years to realize it, but we did, and together as a family it seems like it will all be okay, that we'll make it some way. The only comfort about him being there and us being here, is that it reinforces our beliefs (and slight trepidation,) that our love as a family is palpable, even 140 miles away.
Can that love make up for those 36 weeks of anger and pain, though? Or am I to be punished through his punishment? That, truly, is Hell on Earth. To watch helplessly as the merry-go-round spins out of control, and traps the littlest feet in the nightmare. To watch him struggle, to worry and wonder, and in the end be sentenced harshly.
Suddenly, I'm out of things to say. Time to shower, to put on a pretty face, and my best, most confident foot forward, for all of us need it today.
Monday, March 28, 2011
The echo of a million voices needs to be heard.
I haven't blogged in quite some time. I worked hard to build a network of followers, of friendly faces, of people I care about and who care about me, and I've left without a word.
Life and love have been difficult. Through my own drama and tragedy, I have been helping to mitigate the dramas and tragedies of a few of the people I love the most, in any way I can. March has, as is tradition, brought challenges that have tested even the strongest of our reserves.
Today I come to you and I'm begging you - even though it seems as though I've abandoned you, stand with me.
KB at Wanderlust, a beautiful soul with two amazing children and the fortitude of a giant, needs our help. Her life has been it's own horror film, full of the horrors that we naturally recoil from. Child pornography and exploitation, a secret life being lived right next to her, unusual weapons hidden but in plain sight, abuse, threats, and the discovery of chilling "horror porn" being used for sexual purposes by someone she was most intimate with. These are the things that can choke out a person's light. They can leave a hollow and empty shell, and that's under the best of circumstances where that person is allowed to leave the scene of the crimes. KB hasn't been able to. She stays there, day after day, providing as much stability as she could for her children, the innocents caught in the plot of this twisted screen play that has become her life.
Please go, read her posts, offer your support, retweet, repost, share, text, pull strings, act on ideas... do what you can to help her. There are hundreds of other women and children that become statistics, but you KNOW about this family, and you have the opportunity to help. You have the opportunity to lend your voice to hers, to help her be heard, and to help her remain safe. Maybe in the movement we create, we can establish a protocol, a guideline, a way to keep helping, so that we can pare those numbers down, one by one. The KB spouse and children protection act, or something equally as hopeful sounding.
http://www.wanderlustlust.com - it's not easy reading, but I encourage you to keep going. Know the extent to which she is trapped. Let it sink in that it could be you or me. Help me help her.
Life and love have been difficult. Through my own drama and tragedy, I have been helping to mitigate the dramas and tragedies of a few of the people I love the most, in any way I can. March has, as is tradition, brought challenges that have tested even the strongest of our reserves.
Today I come to you and I'm begging you - even though it seems as though I've abandoned you, stand with me.
KB at Wanderlust, a beautiful soul with two amazing children and the fortitude of a giant, needs our help. Her life has been it's own horror film, full of the horrors that we naturally recoil from. Child pornography and exploitation, a secret life being lived right next to her, unusual weapons hidden but in plain sight, abuse, threats, and the discovery of chilling "horror porn" being used for sexual purposes by someone she was most intimate with. These are the things that can choke out a person's light. They can leave a hollow and empty shell, and that's under the best of circumstances where that person is allowed to leave the scene of the crimes. KB hasn't been able to. She stays there, day after day, providing as much stability as she could for her children, the innocents caught in the plot of this twisted screen play that has become her life.
Please go, read her posts, offer your support, retweet, repost, share, text, pull strings, act on ideas... do what you can to help her. There are hundreds of other women and children that become statistics, but you KNOW about this family, and you have the opportunity to help. You have the opportunity to lend your voice to hers, to help her be heard, and to help her remain safe. Maybe in the movement we create, we can establish a protocol, a guideline, a way to keep helping, so that we can pare those numbers down, one by one. The KB spouse and children protection act, or something equally as hopeful sounding.
http://www.wanderlustlust.com - it's not easy reading, but I encourage you to keep going. Know the extent to which she is trapped. Let it sink in that it could be you or me. Help me help her.
Thursday, March 17, 2011
Glittersniffer Cosmetics: A lesson in keeping faith in others in the face of a dangerous deception.
I am going to refer you to two different places for details of the story, but the gist is this: Proprietor Lela Warren made bank with the production of truly outstanding eye makeup. She offered a product that was brighter, sparklier, and more popular than many other cosmetics companies. She had an outstanding story - a small business staffed by friends and family, a product she loved making and loved selling, and a soft spot for philanthropic pursuits.
She claimed her products were safe. So safe, in fact, that she marketed a specialized kit just for the little girls we (her customers,) knew who would love their own bit of glitz.
She ran raffles and sales for charity causes.
Turns out, it was all a lie. Pigments and dyes not approved for use anywhere on the body, let alone the eyes. Coloring agents approved for use in soaps and candles only.
The charity money? Presumably used to fund her alleged drug habit and God knows what else.
I'm sorry, faithful followers. I'm sorry that I recommended her to you. I'm sorry I used her products on my own child. I'm sorry, most of all, that people like her - you know, duplicitous and unrepentant, full of lies and a proclivity towards doing things she knows to be wrong without an ounce of guilt - are able to get ahead in the world while good people, honest people, people who have done nothing but try to make the lives of the people they touch in one way or another better, are so often handed the short end of the stick.
Through this all, though, I have learned to look for certain signs, and look for them I have in my efforts to find a new cosmetics maker that I am comfortable with. The absence of those signs has led me to one I have yet to be disappointed by. That said, I'm going to keep it under wraps for now. I have faith, and have become friends with the mix master and owner, but regardless of that... Well, there will be a review soon enough.
Oh, I almost forgot your clicky links for the details and the updates on the legals and such.
First, visit Krissi's blog: http://krissisandvik.blogspot.com/2010/12/falling-in-and-out-of-love.html
And then check out the clearing house of current info: http://glittersniffercomplaints.blogspot.com/
She claimed her products were safe. So safe, in fact, that she marketed a specialized kit just for the little girls we (her customers,) knew who would love their own bit of glitz.
She ran raffles and sales for charity causes.
Turns out, it was all a lie. Pigments and dyes not approved for use anywhere on the body, let alone the eyes. Coloring agents approved for use in soaps and candles only.
The charity money? Presumably used to fund her alleged drug habit and God knows what else.
I'm sorry, faithful followers. I'm sorry that I recommended her to you. I'm sorry I used her products on my own child. I'm sorry, most of all, that people like her - you know, duplicitous and unrepentant, full of lies and a proclivity towards doing things she knows to be wrong without an ounce of guilt - are able to get ahead in the world while good people, honest people, people who have done nothing but try to make the lives of the people they touch in one way or another better, are so often handed the short end of the stick.
Through this all, though, I have learned to look for certain signs, and look for them I have in my efforts to find a new cosmetics maker that I am comfortable with. The absence of those signs has led me to one I have yet to be disappointed by. That said, I'm going to keep it under wraps for now. I have faith, and have become friends with the mix master and owner, but regardless of that... Well, there will be a review soon enough.
Oh, I almost forgot your clicky links for the details and the updates on the legals and such.
First, visit Krissi's blog: http://krissisandvik.blogspot.com/2010/12/falling-in-and-out-of-love.html
And then check out the clearing house of current info: http://glittersniffercomplaints.blogspot.com/
Thursday, January 6, 2011
For my dearest Lori...
I have been AWOL lately, and I need to rectify that, with an explanation and a post of substance. I will get to that later.
Right now, though, I need your help. I need your prayers, your good thoughts, your candles, your vibes, your crossed fingers, anything... I need you to show you care.
Lori over at Random Ramblings of a Stay at Home Mom is bearing the brunt of the personal tragedy that has struck her family, and needs as much support from all corners of the blogosphere (and the world.) Her husband is in critical condition, and while yes, he's the "breadwinner," he is also her greatest love, and the father to her beautiful teacup humans.
Link up, spread the word, spread the love, and if you can, drop by her blog and tell her you're sending your love. Remember, the kindness and caring we show to the strangers with whom we share the world shapes our reality for the best. <3
Via KB of Wanderlust:
Here is what I’d like you to do as you link up today:
The rest of the Linky instructions are below. Thank you so much for your kindness and support.
We love you Lori. We're rooting for you, babe. Stay strong. xo
Right now, though, I need your help. I need your prayers, your good thoughts, your candles, your vibes, your crossed fingers, anything... I need you to show you care.
Lori over at Random Ramblings of a Stay at Home Mom is bearing the brunt of the personal tragedy that has struck her family, and needs as much support from all corners of the blogosphere (and the world.) Her husband is in critical condition, and while yes, he's the "breadwinner," he is also her greatest love, and the father to her beautiful teacup humans.
Link up, spread the word, spread the love, and if you can, drop by her blog and tell her you're sending your love. Remember, the kindness and caring we show to the strangers with whom we share the world shapes our reality for the best. <3
Via KB of Wanderlust:
Here is what I’d like you to do as you link up today:
- If you haven’t already, please read Lori’s searing and heartfelt post from last night (it’s first on the Linky) and leave a comment of support for her.
- Send your prayers and/or good vibes to her and her family.
- Link up for Lori. Let her know you were here.
- If it is within your means, consider donating some money to help her family through this difficult time (her husband is the breadwinner and regardless of the outcome, this will be a rough financial ride for them). There is a paypal widget on the sidebar.
- Spread the word about the Linky so she can have as much support as possible at this time.
The rest of the Linky instructions are below. Thank you so much for your kindness and support.
We love you Lori. We're rooting for you, babe. Stay strong. xo
The Rules (according to the big boss)
- Follow my blog, the Random Ramblings of a SAHM. I never seem to get to reading all the links here. But believe me, I try. Not that any of this is my idea anyway- FYBF is MummyTime's brainbaby. I stole it.
- Grab the bubbly button and post it on your sidebar.
- Link your First Name and/or Blog Name and URL of your post or blog.
- Add a short description (max of 125 chars). It could be a description of yourself, your blog or a teaser to your latest post.
- Follow at least 1 linkyer/blogger (Be nice and spread the love).
- The list will be open for linkyers on Fridays (and for the foreigners Friday as well).
- A new and fresh link list will open every Friday. And you will have to link up AGAIN. The previous link list does not carry over to the following week.
- And lastly, have lotsa fun. I mean it. If I detect anyone not totally loving the awesomeness, I will bump you off the linky list. (Joking) (Kinda).
- Ripping off my stuff- including these rules- makes baby Jesus cry. If you are doing your own blog hop, please write your own rules. You know who you are.
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